Oneself cannot define what is our life really mean in common. But let me define what I believe and what I have experienced as of now.
Our life has mixture of everything so that different people can define differently but let me share what our life is to me...
Our life forms a web and we cannot stand alone and at the same time we cannot totally depend and rely on others.
BE YOURSELF...
We cannot trust any one ultimately;
There are various types of people in this world; viz; rich, poor, simple, humble, kind, cruel, harsh, ugly, handsome, beautiful, physically handicap, mentally disable etc. There are different kinds of works we the people can do and when we work, we have to mingle with different kinds of people and also we have to work under different leadership. When we work some works to be done in groups, some in partnership and some in alone.
When we work we the people show two faces, one in front of us and other in the absence of us. So for that we have to be very careful to trust immediately and follow them. Since the group work might have done with different intention or with pre-planned.
We cannot say that nothing will happen to us when we are comfortable but one day something misfortunes will knock us automatically. Again if we are too simple, humble and patient also there will be some one who is going to harm us, torture us and spoil us.
If we know how to drive well, but we cannot say there won't occur any accident, the other person may come and hit us and then we will also be in problem, we don't have to create problem.
Simple and humble people are always tortured on behalf of others too and poored ones anger on them.
How full we the simple people have right also there is no use of claiming our rights to get justice, so finally we will be in looser. Powerful people cannot be defeated by the laws and the rules too. Where is the place for us to share our problems and who is there for the simple people to solve their problems?
For example: I am a simple teacher from poor back ground who is very simple. At the same time, I also have many misfortunes in my life like; i had a car accident in 2010 and my wife had a severe head injury and after that my manager took advantage of my simplicity and tortured me a lot in the school. Then even if i have lots of problems, since i am a teacher and i thought laptop is the must and then i bought one laptop for Loan for two years. When I was using the laptop to carry our the school activities, somebody had smeshed it in the staffroom and i reported to the school authority and no demn to solve this problem, then reported to police and Dzongkhag education office and yet not solve, then reported to Dzongdag and too not solve and finally instead of solving the laptop case, i will be transferred immediately and the laptop case is now referred to court. WHO IS SUFFERRING FINALLY?...
